This picture inspired these thoughts... Is that true? Or is that just a phrase we tell ourselves and each other when something doesn't work out exactly the way we pictured?
I think it's perfectly lovely to have that kind of mindset... it's the bright, positive way of looking at any situation. It's like finding the silver lining or declaring a Pollyanna Moment.
What's meant to be will always find a way.
Whenever I'm wondering or spending too much time musing about... what is happening, what has happened, or what will happen, I always remind myself of the wonderful ponderings (apparently I've just invented a word— "ponderings") of Carrie Bradshaw: "can we make a mistake and miss our fate?"
and then ...
"Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate. Without them, what would shape our lives? Perhaps if we never veered off course, we wouldn't fall in love . . . or be who we are. After all, seasons change. So do cities. People come into your life and people go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart. And if you're very lucky, a plane ride away."
[sex and the city... clever witticisms and unabashed humor.]
(I can predict my fate at the magazine today: freshly edited events from Anna waiting for me on my desk. Pen in hand, and keyboard in front of me, I'll dash and type my little heart out, and make those blurbs as delightful as can be.)